Who do you choose to speak to?

Since I have stopped chasing people, I have found my time filled with the love of those truly present. During this lockdown I have refined my boundaries with regards to people both personally and professionally. I'm excited to say that since my attention has been on those naturally engaging in my life, the quality of my friendships and life more widely has improved greatly.
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Since I have stopped chasing people, I have found my time filled with the love of those truly present.

During this lockdown I have refined my boundaries with regards to people both personally and professionally. I’m excited to say that since my attention has been on those naturally engaging in my life, the quality of my friendships and life more widely has improved greatly.

Those currently part of my journey are people who want to connect, to share, to love. I wake up grateful each day that I can pick up my phone and talk to someone truly unique and beautiful, and I love that they would let me be there for them too.

Thank you for turning up for me, I appreciate each one of you 🤝

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